"But the players went out believing in themselves. We looked dangerous in both set and open play and after Southend equalised it gave us a kick up the backside and Martin Carruthers might have had a hat-trick.
Paul Hayes, who scored his first goal for the club after replacing Graves said: "It means the world to me and hopefully I can carry on and get some more."
Southend boss Rob Newman was naturally downhearted saying: " We gifted them the goals and our positional sense was dreadful."